
My book Simple Gatherings is all about inspiring connection. In it I explain that you don’t need a flawless home or an extravagant, expensive party to create a memorable get-together with friends or family.
Hosting can feel intimidating, but try not to overthink it. Most guests are simply happy to see you and to be welcomed into your space. After the unusual and isolating years we’ve experienced, the chance to gather and reconnect feels even more meaningful.
You don’t have to make everything perfect. Still, a few simple touches can elevate your gathering, making it feel special and more memorable for everyone involved.

In Simple Gatherings I outline three things guests remember most: the atmosphere, the food, and the conversation.
Conversation cards are a simple, effective way to encourage meaningful dialogue. Even when there’s plenty to talk about, having small cards on the table can spark new topics or bring a fresh angle to the evening.
We offer free printable conversation starters from the book that you can download and use at your gatherings.
You may recognize the Hygge Game from our gift guides—I ordered a set to have on hand for upcoming get-togethers. I enjoyed flipping through the cards and imagining the conversations they’ll inspire with family. This set is ideal for the holidays, makes a thoughtful hostess gift, or is an easy thing to bring along to a party.

These cards are easy to tuck into a stocking or a small gift bag, and they’re a quick way to add warmth and connection to any gathering.
You can find more ideas in our Gift Guides.
More holiday and winter inspiration:
4 Simple Gathering ideas (and what to wear to each)
Happy holiday gathering!
