What We’ll Miss Most About Our First Home

In the words of Rose from Titanic… “I’ll never let go.” There are so many small details we’ll miss about our first home that we wanted to gather them in one place. These are the moments and features that always put a smile on our faces — little reminders of the life we built there that we don’t want to forget.

1. The gorgeous cherry tree in the front yard, a constant burst of seasonal beauty and a favorite backdrop for photos and quiet mornings.

Cherry tree in front yard

2. Our new kitchen, worth every chaotic day without a sink and dozens of meals eaten out while it came together.

3. The lush, private backyard — one of the main reasons we bought the house back in 2006. It felt like a secret garden we could escape to.

4. The sweet front porch where we’d sit and wave to neighbors as they passed by, savoring slow evenings and friendly hellos.

5. Layers of paint and tiny shards of old wallpaper we uncovered during renovation — small archaeological clues that hinted at the house’s past lives.

6. The charming story of the house’s first owners that we later dug up and shared with anyone who wanted to hear it.

7. How narrow the front and back doors were — we even had to remove the doors from our new fridge to get it inside.

8. Waking up each morning and looking out at the spot where we got married — a quiet, emotional reminder of that day.

View of backyard where we married

9. The quirky cow weather vane perched on the garage, a little touch of whimsy that always made us smile.

Cow weather vane

10. The cute red shed in the backyard that we never really used, but that added character to the garden.

11. Mostly centered windows throughout the house — a small architectural detail that turned out to be surprisingly rare and charming.

12. The oddity that neither bathroom had an outlet for the first few years (one still doesn’t), which made daily routines interesting.

13. Two fireplaces — truly a stroke of luck that added warmth and ambiance in colder months.

14. The exact look of the front yard the night we first drove up to see the house — enough to make us put in an offer that same evening.

Front yard the night we made an offer

15. Rushing home early from vacations simply because we missed being there — a sure sign we’d made the right choice.

16. Sleepless renovation nights spent painting, planning, swinging hammers, and daydreaming about the next project.

17. The lovable neighborhood where we walked Burger (and later Clara), full of familiar faces and quiet streets.

18. Spectacular fall foliage that turned the whole block into a dazzling display every autumn — beautiful, even if raking it wasn’t our favorite chore.

Fall leaves in neighborhood

19. The two rare snowstorms that made the house feel even cozier and more magical.

Snow-covered house

20. The many white and pink azalea bushes — there must be at least fifty — that bloomed and perfumed the yard each spring.

21. Modestly sized rooms that encouraged togetherness and made everyday life feel intimate.

22. Wide doorways that unexpectedly opened up the den, kitchen, and living/dining areas and improved flow throughout the home.

23. Crisp white trim, classic molding, and breezy curtains that gave the house a light, beachy feel in summer months.

24. The patio, which has developed a lovely aged patina and moss over the last few years, growing character with time.

25. Making s’mores on the patio after adding a fire pit — a simple tradition that became a favorite evening ritual.

S'mores by the fire pit

26. Lazy Sunday mornings in the sunroom — our go-to cozy corner for reading, stretching, and slow breakfasts.

27. Subway tile running to the ceiling in the shower — a detail I catch myself admiring nearly every day and a testament to John’s handiwork.

28. Our impressive collection of storage solutions: 23 storage baskets and 10 storage ottomans in a small house. Organizer’s Anonymous, anyone?

29. Built-ins in the bedroom that create a snug, tucked-in feeling every night.

30. Bringing our dog and our baby home here — this house became the first home for Clara and Burger as well.

Clara and Burger at home

31. The large picture window in the living room where Burger loves to bark at passing dog friends.

32. A seeded glass pendant above the kitchen sink — a simple, distinctive light we haven’t found a replacement for since ordering it years ago.

33. Memories of painting nearly every room multiple times to get the color and finish just right.

34. The comforting click of the sunroom screen sliding — a little sound that used to mean John was home from work and always felt exciting.

35. The maddening yet memorable project of removing scallops from the front porch — my toughest solo renovation challenge so far.

36. The thrill of every crash when John demo’d the bathroom — I was pregnant then and had to watch from the sidelines, but it was exhilarating nonetheless.

Bathroom demo memory

37. The tiny paranoia before vacations — did we unplug the toaster, lock the door, or arm the alarm? John would humor me and turn the car around so I could check.

38. “Camping” in the sunroom on warm spring nights and regretting it when the sun woke us at dawn.

39. Plugging in the Christmas tree, sitting by the fire with hot chocolate, and feeling like nothing could be better.

40. Phantom doorbell rings when the battery was dying, randomly startling us at odd moments.

41. The garage door that swings outward to open — a quirky design that required constant warnings about parking too close.

42. How everything looked in the first year, before we had any idea how much blood, sweat, and tears we would pour into the house.

43. Burger stretched out near the vent under the side table, warming his buns and making the living room feel lived-in and loved.

44. Shouting “don’t look, I’m peeing” when the half-bath pocket door jammed — one of those little, embarrassing household memories we laugh about now.

45. Our wedding night, when we squeezed in one last photo in the photo booth at the corner of the driveway after everyone left and before the truck came to collect it.

Wedding night photo booth

We’re ready and excited for the new house, but saying goodbye to this one tugs at our hearts. These moments and details are what made this house our home, and we’ll carry them with us wherever we go.