Try to forget yourself in the service of others. For when we think too much of ourselves and our own interests, we easily become despondent. But when we work for others, our efforts return to bless us.–Sidney Powell
Often in our homes we focus on what makes us comfortable and content, which is natural — a home should be a place of joy. Yet if creating a home becomes only about our own happiness, we miss a richer, more lasting fulfillment that comes from opening our home and our heart to others.
True, deeper happiness grows when we use our gifts and our spaces to bless other people. I’ve always cherished the chance to host friends and family. Our slightly wobbly, nearly antique dining table can’t hold a large crowd, so on holidays and for dinner parties we pull up a card table and extend the surface into the living room. A simple tablecloth unites the two into one long, cheerful table. It isn’t fancy, but it brings together what matters most: shared memories, nourishing food, and the people we love.
Isn’t that the real aim of making a home? To open the door wide and invite people to gather in a warm, welcoming place — without apologies, without anxiety about square footage, without trying to impress. A home should be a space where care for others is the priority.
Blogging and social media have created another way to welcome people into our lives from wherever they are. From the kitchen table, we can connect with readers and friends around the world. Messages and comments feel like letters from friends: they challenge us, broaden our perspective, and create genuine connection.
Although we may not all visit each other in person, I’m grateful we can meet here on The Inspired Room and share a love for home. Twelve years after starting this blog, I’m still amazed that this community exists. I love sharing ideas with you and reading your responses in the comments and emails. If you disappear for a while or just read quietly, know that your presence is missed — the camaraderie that grows from interaction makes this space feel like a gathering of real-life friends.
One path to personal happiness is to focus on making others feel welcome and cared for. Thank you to everyone who invests time and heart into this community. I’m grateful you follow along, whether you visit this blog, engage on social media, read my books, or participate in our groups. Your engagement is what keeps this place alive.
Happy gathering!