I was browsing online recently when photos of a small coastal cottage in Carmel stopped me in my tracks. That cottage captures much of the future vision I have for my own home.
This Carmel cottage is currently sale pending. I’m a big fan of Carmel—have you been? The home’s charm really resonated with me.
But look closely… do you see what I see? Beyond the Dutch door, the paneled walls, built-in bookcases and vaulted ceiling, there’s one detail that made my heart skip:
Right in the center of the living room sits what I can only call my fireplace’s twin. It’s remarkably similar to mine—minus the bookcase—but close enough to be reassuring.
After reading so many kind comments about my fireplace, discovering this house boosted my confidence that my fireplace fits the cottage aesthetic I’m aiming for. Painted white, it looks simple and cottage-like, which I love. Small, thoughtful changes can make a big difference.
Even so, I’m still considering a few updates to my décor, fireplace and living room. I’ll share those plans in a future post.
The Carmel cottage is inspiring—its character is abundant and inviting.
One step at a time, right?
When you’re working with a budget (or a busy life), it helps to have a long-term vision and short-term plans. Updating a home over time doesn’t mean living in chaos for years. With pacing and planning, you can take breaks between projects and still make steady progress.
Timeless Tip: Make simple changes you can complete within your budget and timeline, while keeping a reasonable standard of quality.
Here are a few cottage-style suggestions you can implement over time.
1. Start with a clean slate.
Before investing time and money adding character, simplify any conflicting or dated features so you begin with a fresh backdrop. That might include painting walls, covering or updating unattractive brick, or replacing old carpet and light fixtures.
If you can refinish or install hardwood floors and add architectural details all at once, that’s ideal. But it’s fine if you can’t do everything at once. Tackle what you can and prioritize the messy projects first when possible so later updates feel more cohesive.
A cleaner backdrop helps you see which cottage elements will have the biggest impact while staying on budget.
2. Focus on simple updates.
With an improved backdrop, add cottage touches gradually: bamboo blinds, shutters, or unfussy curtain panels; classic furniture, rugs, and cozy lighting; simple ceiling or wall fixtures. Small changes like artwork, accessories, and new hardware are affordable and make a big visual difference.
3. Add cottage architecture.
Ideally architectural changes come early, but sometimes you must work with what you have. A phased approach can be beneficial: once the space feels cleaner and cozier, large remodels may feel less urgent or may no longer be necessary.
When you’re ready for bigger projects, the options are plentiful: install wainscoting or wall paneling, add crown molding, replace floors with hardwood or tile, update windows and doors, or convert a square doorway into an arch. You might also consider vaulted ceilings or exposed beams if that suits your home.
Have you remodeled all at once, or added character over time?
A few more thoughts on cottage style
Cottage style thrives on simple, thoughtful choices. Take inspiration from homes you love, adapt ideas to your budget, and let your home evolve. The slow process often leads to a space that feels authentic and lived-in, not hurried or contrived.
If you enjoy a gradual approach to decorating, plan your updates, prioritize the most impactful changes, and remember that small improvements add up. A little patience and a clear vision will help you create a cozy cottage look you’ll love for years to come.